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Plot Overview
A second lieutenant on leave in 1953 picks
up a pretty nurse in an English garden. They go on walks, have
coffee, and fool around until he gets deployed to Korea. A snafu in
the mail causes them to lose track of each other, which might be
just as well, because her parents would not have approved of an unknown
soldier, and he was not in a position to support a bride anyway.
After Lionel Hardcastle
(Geoffrey Palmer) completes his Korean tour, he becomes
a bwana in Kenya, a man-about-town in England, and an aspiring
writer wanting a secretary. Hospital nurse Jean Pargetter
(Judi Dench) gets married then loses her husband David. She forms
her own secretarial pool agency and employs her daughter
Judith (Moira Brooker) who while “on the rebound”
accepts a concert date with the old charmer Lionel. The two elders
recognize each other when he swings by the office to pick her up.
The two erstwhile
lovers are coy with each other as they attempt to negotiate the
tricky terrain of starting over after a twenty-eight year hiatus.
Their British repartee keeps the laugh track engaged, and Jean
& her girlfriends make cozy girl-talk about it. Future
flashbacks show Jean and Lionel trying to scope out Jean's
daughter Judith and her employee Sandy trotting out their suitors
in front of them. Linguistics Professor Deborah Tannen, PhD, might
include it as one of her:
many examples of people piling on details in conversation involv[ing] old people. This may be because old people often want more involvement with young people than young people want with them, or because old people frequently cannot hear well, so they tell detailed stories to maintain interaction. Old people are also more inclined to reminisce about the past, consequently telling stories that are likely to include details. ¶It is a tenet of contemporary American psychology that mental health requires psychological separation from one's parents. One way of resisting overinvolvement, for some people at least, is resisting telling details (116–7).
Ideology
King Solomon has a (Proverb 30:20) “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.” It was concocted in a day when virtually everyone got married, and at a young age, so any sexual mischief would ordinarily involve at least one married. Today it has broader application. The idea is that a loose woman “eateth,” has a man inside her who is not her husband, then “wipeth her mouth,” cleans up the external appearance, “and saith, I have done no wickedness.”
Lionel & Jean in their early
perambulations, stumbled upon an out-of-the-way B&B, registered for
appearance sake under the assumed name of Mr. & Mrs. Ambrose
Smith, and lost their virginity up in room 8. In fact Lionel plied
her with twenty-eight [?!] cups of coffee before he was sure she
was ready. And later in answer to his biographer's
“licentious” question of how she looked to him when he
first entered the room, he said he didn't see her because she was
in the bathroom. Little wonder.
It took them twenty-eight years to meet again, and another nine for courting before he married her and made an honest woman out of her. Her daughter Judith, on the other hand, adamantly refused advances from her beau Alistair (Philip Bretherton) to live together before they were wed. Whether mother and daughter exemplified the same degree of innocence, I'll leave to the audience to decide. I'll just say better late than never. That it is the rare soldier who is so committed to his conquest(s) is indicated by her parents' negative reaction to their tryst.
Production Values
“” (BBC video 2002) stars Judi Dench, Geoffrey Palmer and Moira Brooker. The two leads had excellent chemistry together, and Brooker was a knockout as Jean's daughter. The rest of the (small) cast did just fine.
It's rated TV–PG. The sets were confined, it being the
characters that carried the story. There were no frills. These
Brits brew both coffee & tea. It's told from the
standpoint of an elderly couple reminiscing about their past
that in turn recalls an earlier past that we don't actually see
except for two still snapshots. Time fades occur without
warning. We can orient ourselves time-wise by the growing bald
spot and receding hairline of Lionel, and by the graying and
ultimately whitening of Jean's hair. Also the hairstyles of
female fixtures change with the fashions. Dialogue is replete with
pithy quips accompanied by a laugh track. The movie is so well done
as not to need embellishments. Runtime is 1 hour.
Review Conclusion w/a Christian's Recommendation
I'd call this an old person's movie likely to bore a younger generation but captivate the old folk. It was excellently crafted but bare bones.
Movie Ratings
Action Factor: Weak action scenes. Suitability for children: Suitable for children with guidance. Special effects: Wake up and smell the 1990s technology. Video Occasion: Better than watching TV. Suspense: A few suspenseful moments. Overall movie rating: Four stars out of five.
Works Cited
Scripture quoted from the King James Version. Pub. 1611, rev. 1769. Software.
Tannen, Deborah. You Just Don't Understand. Copyright © 1990 by Deborah Tannen. New York: William Morrow and Company. Print.